Has the spark disappeared?
Do you feel like ships in the night?
Do you wish your partner would hear instead of just listening?
Are you struggling with conflict?
Do you feel like you've lost the love?

Reduce conflict | Strengthen connection | Nurture love


Learn the skills, tools and principles for a thriving, happy, connected relationship.

Be guided by relationship therapist and expert Pam Custers, who has years of experience helping couples navigate their way to a happy and fulfilled relationship.

Our signature course takes just four sessions to transform your relationship, through our online workshop with live sessions with Pam. That's just one month for you and your partner to go from surviving to thriving.



Reignite the spark
Reconnect every day
Truly hear and be heard
Tackle and resolve conflict
Get the love back


Hello, I’m Pam


I'm a relationship therapist, relationship expert and Gottman leader. I have spent my career helping couples just like you to solve problems, rebuild connection and nurture love.

During this online course that takes just 4 evenings, we'll explore 7 principles for making relationships work, based on on 40+ years of research.

And why join me? I'm a recognised relationship expert who's been featured on the BBC, Sky, Grazia, Huffington Post and The Telegraph amongst others. I hold multiple qualifications, all dedicated to knowing what makes people - and couples - tick.

Let's get started!